American-Israeli child shares experience of having father combat Hamas and witnessing children being kidnapped
Israeli Family Struggles at Home with Country Mobilized for War Against Hamas
Nine-year-old Emma Katzor couldn’t believe her eyes when she first laid eyes on the hostage posters featuring Israeli children. In a state of disbelief, she hurried back home to her mother, desperate to know if what she saw was real.
“I asked my mom, is that even allowed?” Emma recounted to The Daily Wire. “Are they, like, really catching children? She said, yes, and I felt very, very scared.”
Emma’s mother, Elana Katzor, grew up in Massachusetts but made the decision to raise her children in Israel. However, her husband, who serves in the Israeli Defense Forces, has been away since Hamas’ brutal attack on October 7. This has left Elana alone with her three young children, all while being pregnant.
Elana admits that the war has completely disrupted her parenting philosophy, forcing her to carefully choose what information to share with her children.
“I don’t lie to my children — I am of the belief that information doesn’t scare children, but the lack of information scares children,” Katzor said. “I didn’t mention the kidnappings because they didn’t ask me. And then all of a sudden the posters started showing up.”
Emma can’t help but imagine what it would be like if she were taken hostage herself, and whether the children held by Hamas are being properly cared for.
“Do they have diapers, shampoo? Do they have clothes? Do they have supplies? Do they have a house?” she asked. “It’s just very scary.”
Being alone with her three young children has been incredibly challenging for Elana. She believes that the timing of Hamas rocket launches, often occurring at seven, eight, and nine at night, is a form of psychological warfare against children.
“Our freedom of movement has been stressful,” she said. “I don’t drive anymore because I’m scared that I’m with three kids, I’m pregnant, there’s a siren, I have to pull over to the side of the road. I have to manage to get three kids out of the car on a highway.”
“It also tends to happen in the evenings right before bedtime,” Elana said. “Bedtime is more scary and it’s their way of terrorizing us.”
Katzor has had to adjust her daily routine to accommodate the possibility of a rocket attack, even showering late at night when rockets are less likely to occur.
Despite her fear, Emma tries to remain calm for the sake of her younger sister.
“I say that it’s okay and that we’re winning and that we have a strong army and that we have a mother here,” she said. “That’s to make her feel like everything is okay.”
Although Elana’s husband has been able to come home for short visits and make frequent video calls, Emma still struggles without her father around. At school, she writes letters with pictures for the soldiers.
“Dear soldiers, I hope you come back with peace and I hope there is not going to be hurt people, like people who broke their arm or their leg,” Emma said she wrote in one letter. “I just hope that you have a good Shabbat.”
How do Israeli families, like the Katzors, balance maintaining a sense of normalcy for their children while remaining vigilant and prepared for potential threats during the ongoing conflict
Wondered aloud. “It’s just really scary to think about.”
The Katzor family is just one of many Israeli families struggling to cope with the ongoing conflict between Israel and Hamas. As tensions escalate and the country mobilizes for war, families are forced to adapt to new and uncertain circumstances.
For parents like Elana Katzor, the challenge of explaining the situation to their children becomes even more difficult. Balancing honesty with the need to protect their innocence can be a delicate task.
However, psychologists argue that providing age-appropriate information can actually help children feel more secure during times of crisis. Dr. Rachel Coleman, a child psychologist, explains that children have a natural desire to make sense of their world.
“By giving them accurate information, we are empowering them and helping them to understand what is happening around them,” Dr. Coleman said. “It’s important to emphasize that they are safe and that there are people working to protect them.”
Despite the challenges, parents like Elana Katzor are trying their best to maintain a sense of normalcy for their children. They continue with their daily routines and hobbies, all while remaining vigilant and prepared for any potential threats.
While the Katzor family understands the importance of staying informed, they also recognize the need to shield their children from unnecessary fear and anxiety. Elana believes that focusing on the positive aspects of their life, such as spending time with family and engaging in activities they enjoy, can help alleviate some of the stress caused by the conflict.
However, the constant presence of war in everyday life cannot be ignored. The sounds of sirens wailing, the periodic rocket fire, and the pressure to seek shelter at a moment’s notice are all reminders of the harsh reality the Katzor family faces.
As the war against Hamas persists, Israeli families continue to grapple with the emotional toll it takes on their daily lives. The uncertainty and fear that come with living in a war-torn country are challenges no family should have to endure. However, the resilience and determination of the Israeli people to protect their loved ones shines through.
Israeli families, like the Katzors, remain hopeful for a peaceful resolution to the conflict. They long for a day when their children can grow up without the constant threat of violence hanging over their heads. Until then, they will continue to face the struggles at home, uniting as a family and finding strength in one another.
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